How to make a calm down jar: 17 DIY calm down jar recipes we love

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A calm down jar offers a fabulous way for kids (and for adults!) with special needs like autism, sensory processing disorder, OCD, and anxiety to learn the art of self-regulation. We’re teaching you what calm down jars are, and how and why they work, and we’re also sharing 17 DIY calm down jar recipes you can make at home for cheap. We’ve even included some glitter-free calm down jars to inspire you to be creative!

If you’re the parent or caregiver of a child with autism spectrum disorder, sensory processing disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and/or anxiety, you know the importance of having whole-body calming strategies at your disposal to help your little one calm and regulate her body when she feels overwhelmed, and today I want to share a fabulous tool that can help you teach your child to self-regulate when big emotions threaten to take over. It’s called a calm down jar, and while it may sound simple and insignificant, it can make all the difference in helping your child transition from co-regulation to self-regulation when she feels overwhelmed.

I’ve seen several ‘how to make a calm down jar’ pins in my Pinterest feed over the last few years, but it wasn’t until a couple of months ago that I took the time to fully understand why they are so effective and how they can help prevent a meltdown from occurring (and help calm emotions faster when they do).

Of course, there are heaps of other tools and strategies that are effective in helping your child learn how to self-regulate, such as deep breathing, lying under a weighted blanket, going for a walk, or spending time alone in a dark, quiet area, but there will be times when these ideas aren’t really feasible and you need a ‘quick fix.’

And that’s where calm down jars come in.

So, What Is a Calm Down Jar?

Simply put, it’s a jar filled with glitter, glue, and water, as well as any other props that appeal to your child, and while they are effective in soothing pretty much anyone, they are especially useful for kids with ASD, SPD, OCD, and anxiety as they help decrease anxiety and fear while also helping with anger management. The act of shaking and watching the contents of a calm down jar settle forces the body to focus, which in turn allows your child to organize her thoughts and ‘center’ her nervous system. The idea is that, as the items within the calm down jar fall, so will your child’s heart rate and rapid breathing, allowing her to gain control over her emotions.

How Do I Use a Calm Down Jar to Calm My Child?

In order for a calm down jar to work, it’s important to introduce it to your child before she’s upset so she understands what it is and how it works. Shake it up, give it to her, and see what she does! If she likes it and you find it soothes her, keep it on hand and give it to her the next time she feels overwhelmed, and continue using it each time her emotions are running high. This is called co-regulation as you are the one initiating her use of the calm down jar, but over time, your child will hopefully transition to self-regulation by asking or reaching for it when she’s feeling anxious, scared, or angry.

Teach Me How to Make a Calm Down Jar!

While you can buy calm down jars online, learning how to make a calm down jar yourself is surprisingly easy and it’s fun to add a little bit of personalization for your child.

Here’s a list of simple instructions to teach you how to make a calm down jar from scratch!

1. Gather your supplies:

2. Mix glitter glue with hot water and a few drops of food coloring and whisk vigorously until the glue ‘melts’ and mixes properly with the water. To be honest, I didn’t follow a specific glue/water ratio when I made mine. I just sort of threw it all together and hoped for the best, but you can adjust to your preference.

3. Add additional glitter, whisk vigorously one more time, and transfer mixture into your clear jar.

4. If your jar isn’t 100% full, top up with hot water.

5. Allow water to cool to room temperature before putting the lid on.

6. Secure lid with glue (I used a glue gun) to ensure it is properly sealed and won’t leak.

7. Shake and enjoy!

What Other Things Can I Add To My Child’s Calm Down Jar?

There are HEAPS of different calm down jar variations you can make to appeal to the interests of your individual child, and not all of them have to have glitter in them. We’ve rounded up 17 of our favorites below!

1. LEGO Calm Down Jar | Lemon Lime Adventures
2. Pinterest-Inspired Crafting: A Calm Jar | Untrained Housewife
3. Glitter Jar | Fireflies & Mud Pies
4. No Liquid Calm Down Sensory Bottle | Best Toys 4 Toddlers
5. Play Dr Mom – Relaxation Jars
6. Glitter/Calm Down Jars | Schooling A Monkey
7. ABC Calm Down Bottle | Parenting Chaos
8. Galaxy Calming Jars | Mom Luck
9. Glitter Bottle | Little Bins for Little Hands
10. Love Calm Down Jar | Lemon Lime Adventures
11. Fairy Garden Jar Craft | Artsy Momma
12. Meditation/Time Out Bottle | Happy Mothering
13. Calm Jar | You Brew My Tea
14. Calm Bottle | All Mommy Wants
15. Transport Calm Down Sensory Bottle | Best Toys 4 Toddlers
16. 6 Ways to Make a Calm Down Jar | Preschool Inspirations
17. Calming Bottle | Mess for Less

Learning how to make a calm down jar is not only fun, but it can also make a world of difference in teaching your child how to self-regulate. And since they are pretty and portable, calm down jars are an excellent tool to help children with ASD, SPD, OCD, and anxiety calm down when they’re on the go. Keep one in your purse, in your car, and in your child’s school backpack!

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If you found these tips to teach you how to make a calm down jar helpful, please share them on Pinterest!A calm down jar offers a fabulous way for kids (and for adults!) with special needs like autism, sensory processing disorder, OCD, and anxiety to learn the art of self-regulation. We’re teaching you what calm down jars are, and how and why they work, and we’re also sharing 17 DIY calm down jar recipes you can make at home for cheap. We’ve even included some glitter-free calm down jars to inspire you to be creative!

And if you’re looking for more tips and tricks for kids with special needs, please follow our Autism board, where we share all kinds of fabulousness strategies and ideas!

Gwen
Gwen
Gwen is a 40-something freelance writer and social media consultant who has an unhealthy love for makeup, hair, and fashion. She lives with her husband and 8-year-old daughter in Toronto, Canada and hopes to move to a warmer climate someday. Preferably tomorrow.